Make Sure Everyone Gets The Memo!

When you re-evaluate your life you also take a second look at all the people in it.  I’ve come to realize that when you start gaining perspective and transitioning your life to where you want it to be, not everyone will be as supportive of your efforts.  Sadly, you can’t satisfy everyone’s expectations of you.  Make room for the new you by keeping everyone on track with what works for you.  The times of dropping everything for the next person and leaving what needs to be done for your self for later are over.  Ladies you don’t have to shut everyone out, but you do need the right support team that will be positive in receiving your efforts.  One thing that has proven to be eminent in my own life is that when someone is so used to hearing you say yes, they have a very difficult time when you say no.  It’s ok to be of assistance to others, but insert the balance and make sure they understand that support is shifted both ways.  Relationships can feel heavy at times, and cause a person to question there own motives.  Keep in mind, there is nothing wrong with making certain that YOU remain the main priority in your life. 

Have a good one!