Experienced A Little Madness Lately???

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Ladies, have you ever found yourself in that moment when you realize things are getting off track? Somehow, along the way, your priorities got shifted out of order, and instantly you feel like you’re running a race against time?  Before I go any further let me just say that time is always the gold medalist in these instances, but I don’t think we realize it until it’s too late; by then we’re worn out, tired, overwhelmed, frustrated and my favorite just plain lazy and cant stimulate the urge to do anything. Madness, pure madness I tell you and the funny thing is that period in our lives just creeps up unnoticed every time.  It’s the good, the bad and the ugly all disguised in one little word…hectic.  No other way around it, and no other way to explain it.  

In retrospect I guess you could try and mentally prepare yourself for a time like this, but I almost guarantee you it will happen anyway.  It’s a transition period in life, which simply means more than likely it’s inevitable; it’s the whirlwind effect and we all go through it, some of us more times than the other.  My question is “who’s going to be there to rescue you and help you through it?”   Ladies, one of the unique qualities we possess is the ability to plan.  When a woman thinks of her life, she is automatically thinking of the future.  Whether that future is tomorrow or ten years from now, when the thought process is triggered we look at how everything will be affected overall.  So who’s going to be the one to restore the balance? Well for starters you are.  You will have to be able to grab the reins, come to a full stop and re-evaluate.  You will have to trigger that inner voice and give yourself the pep talk that you don’t want to here from anyone else.  Ladies, you will have to acknowledge that the person in the mirror is only human and can’t do it all over night, and come to the clear realization that you simply can’t out run time.  Yes we all have goals, and by our hard work, faith and focus we will accomplish them; just come to the understanding, that often, you will get thrown off the path but that doesn’t mean you cant get back on track.  Ladies, if you’ve been swooped into the whirlwind of life these past few weeks, like I’ve been, it’s ok because your destiny still waits. Find your way back to your path, and remember there’s so much to receive at the finish line.

Stay Focused!

Your Life, Your Role...Your Tomorrow



Your life…what is it that you want tomorrow that you don’t have today?  When you really take the time to reflect on your path there is so much more than beats the eye.  The true witness to your endeavors is you; therefore, your recollection of it all is the truest testament of where you have been, where you are now and ultimately where you want to be.  What’s conducive for your well being, are the objects you choose to be a part of the path.  There is no law against formulating and implementing a strategy to live by. Goals are not accomplished simply by sitting back and watching it manifest.  To truly appreciate life is to live it, fully, to the best of your knowledge.  Not every moment is a conquered moment, but being conscious of time is a much needed tool, for time waits for no one.  Everyday that we put something off is a day that you could have been one step closer to the finish line. The real appreciation of life is the acknowledgement of your purpose in it.  You are here for a reason, but only you can let the world know what that reason is.  Ladies if not for any other rationale…LIVE LIFE BECAUSE YOU CAN!  Inquiring minds want to know…what does tomorrow hold for you?

Spoil Me Wednesday: Serenity For The Mind

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Take some time out of your schedule to enjoy a soothing bubble bath; just you and your thoughts in seclusion.  Not only is it a platform for relaxation, it's also a time for you to be one with you.



There are some people out there, in the world, that allow their own minds to work against them—in my book this is an absolute no, no.  If you, yourself, become your own worst enemy imagine how much more difficult it will be to triumph over the true adversaries out there?  Your mind should be a frontline cheering station; a realm for positive reinforcement, and a magnet for genuine optimism.  The best thing about the thought process is that it is private, no one ever has to know what you’re thinking or planning unless you want them to.  Your psyche is a safe haven to store your innovative ideas, and creative concepts.  If you have been carefree when it comes to the notion of sharing your thoughts in the past, take a look at it from this angle going forward.  Success does not only derive from financial backing alone, your idea can possibly be the next big thing—all you can do is try.  A perfect example of being your own worst enemy is discouraging yourself before even making an attempt; how do you know your idea wasn’t going to work?  If you don’t believe in your self, why would anyone else believe in you?  Become an activist of self growth…you deserve to continuously climb the ladder of your life until you become the epitome of your success.  Ladies we have to stay committed to making our strides. —“my life is feeling so good these days, and I know it’s because I’m taking the initiative to change some things for the better.” (Bernie)

Have a GREAT one!

I Got A Feeling

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You know that feeling you get when you know it’s going to be a good day?  That assurance that takes over you, that can be displayed in every step you take?  That confidence you feel that guarantees your smile, and in return that smile becomes so catchy that others automatically smile back at you? You feel strong, motivated, focused even happy; you’re mentally prepared to conquer any and all obstacles that may pop up along the day.  You literally feel a deep appreciation for life, and are humbled at the opportunity to continuously make your dreams come true.  It’s a feeling of liberation.  No one can take away your shine.  You are on a mission, and it will be a success based on determination alone. Ladies, it’s your time to shine.  It costs absolutely nothing to wake up in this frame of mind. If there is one thing that I’ve experienced over the years, it’s the power of our thoughts and emotions.  Sure, it may not be possible to feel up beat and motivated all the time, but if you at least make the attempt it can make a world of difference….especially in shaping the day ahead of you.  Get the feeling ladies; it’s as simple as deciding to make a long term investment in YOU.

Have a GREAT one!

Spoil Me Wednesday: Celebrate & Embrace Your Age

A toast to you....

With every day, every month and eventually the completion of every year comes the obvious reminder that we are not getting any younger, but in fact getting older. There are those of us that embrace the coming of age by welcoming it with open arms and an agenda that fits the timeline of a new era, and there are those of us that shun at even the thought of getting old; they are the same people that turn off the lights, and hide in the dark of the shadows in hopes that if the date is not recognized all will stay the same—reality check ladies—time waits for nobody. Ultimately, we have no choice but to accumulate in years.  The positive side to all this is that with age comes a more stable line of freedom.  You now have the responsibility, to yourself, to choose a direct line towards your goals & dreams.  You have the opportunity to choose wiser, and doing this simply by comparing your life experiences.  The more you grow in maturity, the more you can reflect on your life as it was, and eventually come to realize it as it should be.  Currently I’m in my 30’s, and I’m absolutely loving it.  When I get to my 40’s I want to look back and say…"been there done that, now off to bigger and better."  With each year that approaches, I'm celebrating every single day of it...and you should too!

Have a GREAT one!